Hi, I'm Sarah

I help women become mothers

when it's not going as planned.

We celebrate all paths to motherhood: single mother by choice, sperm donation, egg donation, surrogacy, adoption, co-parenting and donor conceived children.

My goal is to save you time and heartache on your path towards motherhood. 

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Demystify Sperm Banks

This guide has it all--an overview of policies such as Open ID policies, pricing, genetic testing, what information is available for each donor and more.  Plus, a quick reference guide, and worksheets to help you get clarity. Save yourself hours of time and heartache and get the guide now.  
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Have Bold Conversations About Different Families

Families of all shapes and sizes are becoming more and more common. But people don't always know how to have conversations about having two moms or no dad.  This guide has tips for how to have the conversation as well as an extensive list of children's books. This guide is perfect for any parent who wants to talk to their children about the differences around them. Raise compassionate, accepting kids from the outset.
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Memoir Sample

In these two poignant chapters you will travel with me to the moments when I decided to take the leap to becoming a single mother via sperm donation and the moment I opened to the possibility of egg donation.
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When Self-Care Isn't Realistic

For many single moms (and moms in general) it's unrealistic to get to the gym or fit in a run.  But that doesn't mean you can't practice to bring yourself present and refreshed moment by moment.  Here are 10 super simple mini-breaks you can do virtually anywhere. Download your guide and feel refreshed in an instant.
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Hi! I’m Sarah Kowalski, Single Mother by Choice, Fertility Doula, Life Coach and author.  I am a go to guide for women who are contemplating single motherhood, seeking help with fertility or raising donor-conceived children. I inspire them to reconsider what it means to be a mother so they can embrace their unique path to motherhood and get down to being a badass mama.
I combine my personal experience as a Single Mother by Choice,  my 8 years of life coaching expertise and my background as a lawyer to help women to cultivate the love, courage and tenacity it takes to conceive and raise a child through unconventional means.


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Sarah Kowalski is a single mother by choice via sperm donation and egg donation

Motherhood Reimagined™ helps women find their way to motherhood even though it may not look anything like previously envisioned. It was born out of my own struggle to choose single motherhood, face infertility and eventually conceive via egg donor and sperm donor.

The good news is that in today’s world of technology and openness, families come in all shapes and sizes. You get to decide how you show up as an empowered mom and how you define family.

Many things are possible if you are willing, such as various family structures, and means of conception.  I can help you understand and evaluate options for pregnancy and parenting, work through the emotional obstacles so that you feel grounded in your decision—whatever that may be.

My belief is that once your baby arrives, no matter what the means— sperm or egg donor, embryo adoption, surrogacy, or adoption—you will love that baby as your own more than you ever knew possible. Your baby will simply be your sweet perfection.

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Join Facebook Support Group Page

Join a community of like minded women for discussions about single motherhood, fertility, egg donation, vacation IVF in a closed Facebook group so only people in the group can see your posts.

Individual Coaching, Support Groups, and Somatic Practices for Every Stage of Your Journey

In today's world of technology and openness, families come in all shapes and sizes. You get to decide how you want to show up as an empowered mom. Book a coaching session and let's discover what's possible.

Family Building Coaching

You want to be a mother but it’s not taking shape as you imagined. You are rethinking which avenues to conception, parenting and pregnancy you want to consider. I can help you understand and evaluate options, such as becoming a single mom by choice, in vitro fertilization, sperm donation, egg donation, embryo adoption or adoption.  Together we will work through the emotional obstacles and help you feel grounded in your decision—whatever that may be.


Fertility Doula

Whether you are trying to conceive with a partner or as a single mom by choice, sometimes figuring out how to get pregnant is mind-boggling and far from romantic. There are so many decisions from choosing a sperm donor, to inseminations, IUI's, in vitro fertilization and other fertility treatments. You don’t have to do this alone.  I work with you on every aspect of the journey to motherhood as your guide, confidant, sounding board, mentor, life coach, emotional rock, and research partner.


Eggs, Eggs, Eggs

It's time to consider other options: egg donation, embryo donation, surrogacy or adoption. The options and logistics can be mind boggling. I've been through infertility myself and can help you make the best decisions and resolve lingering hesitations so you can welcome your baby with an open heart. Let me guide you through your options and decisions.

Mothering Reimagined

Your baby is here and you are being stretched to grow as a new mom in ways you never thought possible. It requires sacrifice and surrender to reinvent yourself as a mother.  Navigate the transition to motherhood gracefully.  Learn practical strategies for staying grounded, building support, and letting of regrets and fears.


Are you ready to reimagine motherhood?

Take control of your life.  Become the mother you want to be.

Scattered Seeds: In Search of Family and Identity in the Sperm Donor Generation

By sarahkowalski@gmail.com | September 28, 2017

Your heart might stop a few times–then be warmed by the sweet connections.  One things for sure, you will be fascinated and better educated after reading Scattered Seeds: In Search of Family and Identity in the Sperm Donor Generation. Author, Jacqueline Mroz has done a wonderful job highlighting the issues with the lack of regulation…

Do I Wish I Had Frozen My Eggs?

By sarahkowalski@gmail.com | July 31, 2017

I feel at the same time, very cynical about companies paying their employees money to freeze their eggs so they can put off starting a family and thrilled that this technology is available to provide more opportunities for women. I was one of those women who after putting my career first, just couldn’t seem to…

Press Release: Motherhood Reimagined Memoir

By sarahkowalski@gmail.com | June 14, 2017

A story of personal triumph, unconditional love and the lengths one will go to experience motherhood At the age of thirty-nine, Sarah Kowalski began to realize time was running out of time to have a baby. After grappling with what it meant to have a baby alone, she eventually realized that she’d always wanted a…

Break the Decision-Making Spiral

By sarahkowalski@gmail.com | May 22, 2017

Decision-making is stressful—from the small, seemingly insignificant decisions to the big ones, such as do I want to have a baby alone, or am I ready to use an egg donor or adopt? As a Single Mom, when your child comes along, you are forced to make all parenting decisions alone, such as who to…

My Infertility Story — How I Got The Baby I Was Meant To Have

By sarahkowalski@gmail.com | April 23, 2017

It’s National Infertility Awareness Week. Here’s my infertility story and how I became a mother via egg donation.  #NIAW #ListenUp Throughout my life I was led to believe it was no big deal to conceive a baby in my forties. Back then, when people asked me (as they so often do ask women in their…

Single, 42 and Infertile But I Still Gave Birth To My Baby

By sarahkowalski@gmail.com | March 4, 2017

As a child, I was obsessed with babies. If anyone asked me if I wanted kids when I grew up, I would exuberantly respond that I wanted eleven babies (I know, right? Eleven??). I distinctly remember stalking a pregnant mother in my neighborhood, asking if I could care for her child once it was born.…

How Being A Single Mom Makes You Better At Dating

By sarahkowalski@gmail.com | February 10, 2017

Being a Single Mom can be lonely at times and make you yearn for a partner. To make matters worse dating as a Single Mom can feel like an uphill batter against an endless shortage of time, money and energy. My son is still young, and I can barely fathom dating. And, yet, I see…

Teaching Love Through Imitation

By sarahkowalski@gmail.com | January 16, 2017

When I proactively chose to become a Solo Mom, I knew parenting would become my spiritual practice. We know that children learn more from imitation than from what we actually tell them.

My 2017 Promises to YOU!

By sarahkowalski@gmail.com | January 1, 2017

This year, my hope is that you will learn everything I know about becoming a single mom by choice, fertility issues, and using a sperm donor and egg donor to conceive. But even more, I hope it inspires you to take whatever path to motherhood (or not) that feels right. As you may know, my…

Infertility Made Me Stronger

By sarahkowalski@gmail.com | November 21, 2016

Infertility made me stronger–it’s true.  When I first learned I was infertile I would have never guessed that it would fundamentally change me for the better. After several years of hemming and hawing, I had only just come to terms with having a baby solo.  I didn’t have a partner yet, so it was time…

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